A Little Holiday Kindness

[I wrote this last year, but we thought it might be helpful to folks again this year.] Last year, it seemed like every discussion about surviving the holidays focused on how to interact with the Trump voter at your family table. This remains disturbingly relevant, though my advice for that lands pretty solidly in the […]

Review: The Queen Bee by Hot Octopuss

Hot Octopuss is best known for their award winning penis stimulation toys. With piston like pulsating, they claim to “reinvent the way you orgasm”.  Once I found out they had a clitoral stimulation toy, The Queen Bee, I was delighted to try it out for a review. When I first started to review toys I […]

Episode 002- If You Wannabe My Lover

Tell me what you want, what you really really want… In Episode 2 we talk about sex and relationships using the What I Want To Do list & The Queer/Trans Relationship Template. What if someone misgenders my partner? What are gender-neutral terms to describe my relationship? Can I be polyamorous if I’m jealous and wanna call […]

Book Review: It’s the End of the World As We Know It

In the last few months, I joined two book clubs, because I love to read, but also because I am a chronic over-scheduler. I didn’t finish either of the first books on time (what are book clubs for, if not to make you feel a little bad about yourself?), but then last month’s selection was […]

Transcript Episode 001- Meet The Queers Next Door

*Content Warning: Talk of Megan’s mother’s homicide, grief, mental health, abortion **Sorry in advance for all of our ‘like!’ “mhmmm” “OMG!” we are such typical Cali girls 😉 haha… Anyway, enjoy! Thanks so much to Sam for this labor of love!!! You’ve selected a show from The Podcast Jukebox, a DIY podcast network. Megan: Welcome […]