Sex Toy Review: The Pulse III Duo from Hot Octopuss

The Pulse III Duo from Hot Octopuss, touted as the “World’s first Guybrator,”is a vibrating sex toy that can be used solo or with a partner. As a sex coach and educator, I am super grateful to see more toys designed specifically for penis-owners. For a long time, masturbation sleeves have pretty much cornered the […]

Transcript Episode 002- If You Wannabe My Lover

Transcript of Queers Next Door Podcast Episode 002- If You Wannabe My Lover

Review: The Queen Bee by Hot Octopuss

Hot Octopuss is best known for their award winning penis stimulation toys. With piston like pulsating, they claim to “reinvent the way you orgasm”.  Once I found out they had a clitoral stimulation toy, The Queen Bee, I was delighted to try it out for a review. When I first started to review toys I […]

Episode 002- If You Wannabe My Lover

Tell me what you want, what you really really want… In Episode 2 we talk about sex and relationships using the What I Want To Do list & The Queer/Trans Relationship Template. What if someone misgenders my partner? What are gender-neutral terms to describe my relationship? Can I be polyamorous if I’m jealous and wanna call […]

SUPER SLUT- my journey through sluthood

Originally posted 6/28/2018- This May I attended Catalyst Con and sat in on a fabulous session called “Super Sluts: Personal Narratives of Reclamation” hosted by Jupiter’s Slut & Dirty Lola. Every time I attend a conference I take a ton of notes and plan on doing write-ups of all the sessions, but then I get […]

Ask Sex Coach Leigh: Whisper to a Scream

Q: I could really use your help! My boyfriend of a year and a half and I are in a bit of a standstill. I am naturally a very quiet person sexually. When I masturbate, I never make a sound, and when we have sex, I only occasionally and quietly make noise. My boyfriend is […]